I'm not sure what this word is, it sounded like "gremyel" or something like that, it seemed like a word for a person who is a failure or loser, or someone who can't do anything right.

Sounds like “grimèl” to me.

Do they say “grimèl chode!”?

Is the word directed at females?

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