why do people believe that you should never walk around with one shoe, or you calling one of your parent to the grave?

It's just superstition, and I don't have an explanation for that.
I believe it's the same as walking on your knees, sharpening both side of a pencil, opening an umbrella inside a house, walking past under someone's arms, they don't necessarily have an explanation.

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