How do you say "light skin guys vs light skin girls"

What you call a light skin African American male here in the US is known as grimo or milat in H. Creole.
And the female is called grimèl or milatrès.
The milat or milatrès (mulatto) usually would have silky hair.
The grimo or grimèl would have afro-textured hair.

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